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5 techniques to orgasm quickly

You know, over here I’m in the house of taking it REAL slow.

Slow pleasure. Slow touch. Slow love.

But I get it. Sometimes you want it hot and quick. You want that blue flame in the center of the bliss.

Sometimes their tongue is about to fall off and they are trying so hard.

Sometimes you only have five minutes before the baby starts screaming and the house turns into a dumpster fire.

You.want.it.faster.

I got you. I think it’s actually better if you don’t focus on the orgasm, but if I’m being super honest, sometimes even I’m like, “Gimme three orgasms to go and LET’S ROLL.”

Sometimes we want it slow and we’re just being in the moment and sometimes we want it NOW.

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3 Conscious Men Talk About Sex

I was talking to my friend Johann about sex the other day and what he really loves about his wife, Rachel…

And I was thinking in my head, “I sooooo wish that every woman could hear this!!!”

So, like usual, I invited him in to make a vlog with Andrew and Jason so they could share what they really desire in the bedroom.

Sometimes we focus on the worst in men or the lowest vibration of men’s sexuality (which can be important, because it needs to be addressed and dealt with)…

And we don’t always talk about amazing examples of manhood and what men’s sexuality can look like when they uplevel and evolve their relationship with sex.

I think for straight women, after being exposed to so much toxic male sexuality, it’s really empowering to hear what’s possible from men who are choosing a higher path…

And to see how men are being called to join the rising consciousness of women (and the planet) … and that many of them are saying yes.

(I want to note that in the last year, the interest I’ve been seeing in men to study conscious/sacred sexuality and to do their own inner work around sexuality has SKYROCKETED!!!)

Not just for my Men’s Sexual Mastery Training program, but literally everywhere that I go.

It’s an exciting time to be alive…and all of us are shaping the future together.

It’s a pleasure to imagine and create and embody this new world with you.

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I’ve never squirted #IamNotAshamed

I’ve never ejaculated!

That’s right, all this time thinking about sex, teaching sex, having sex…and I’ve never squirted!

I made this video to share what I can’t do since sometimes that can bring up shame for us…

Like everyone including your mother, aunt, friends and cat is doing XXXX “sexual thing” and you are the only one who is broken/incapable/not having fun.

I share about how this shows up in my life and how we can all experience less shame and comparison around our sexuality.

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Get BJ advice from 3 gay men

OMG this is the BEST video EVERRRRRRRRR.

You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll learn to how to CRUSH it at blow jobs.

I wanted to teach you some of the best blow job tips out there with a panel of experts…

And who knows better than someone who both gives and receives?

So I spoke with three (exceptionally amazing and hilarious) gay men about what to do…

And what to absolutely NEVER DO when going down on a man.

Things got a little crazy…there were some heated debates and disagreements…

But in the end…we all agreed on this one thing…

Happy New Year!!! To your best sex ever!

Get ready to laugh your head off AND get some amazing advice.

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This happened when they gave themselves permission

About a month ago, I challenged you to spend a day giving yourselves full permission to do anything you desired…

and to record it.

Lots of you sent in INCREDIBLE videos detailing your experiences!

I noticed all of you gave yourselves permission to:

– Take time for yourself
– Eat whatever you wanted
– Move at your own pace

And, of course, because this is our community, you also gave yourselves full permission to:

– Buy sexy underwear
– Take a bubble bath instead of a shower
– Be silly in public

My team and I compiled some of the best clips into the video below

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