Posted on August 25, 2014
This type of discussion about “magnetizing a man” can get cheesy really fast.
(Ladies, match that handbag to those shoes! Pronto! Mr. Perfect awaits you!….)
So. None of that. I promise ;)
However, men are truly, delicious, lovely creatures.
I personally love the smell of their worn t-shirts, their ridiculous simplicity, the perfect way I fit into their arms.
And I’ve got a thing for wild brown curly hair. Don’t know why, I just do…
So knowing how to make a man feel good around me, makes me feel good.
Who doesn’t want that effortless sexiness that magnetizes men?
I’ve done it all wrong, and I’ve done it really right….
I’ve spent years observing girlfriends who just drove men wild…
and talking to men about what does it for them.
And I’ve boiled down one thing that makes the biggest difference of all…
…and the cool thing is, any woman can do it.
Posted on August 19, 2014
I studied with a very intense Indian tantric guru for a while in Bali.
During that period, I often begged her to teach me the secrets of the universe.
(Seemed like a good idea at the time ;))
While many of those secrets remain hidden to be discovered,
She did impart to me an amazing gem of wisdom…
…that sound was the key to everything.
Over the last few years I’ve done many experiments with the power of sound and sexuality,
And discovered some pretty amazing ways to enter different levels of sexual pleasure and experience through sound.
Posted on August 13, 2014
All my sensuality was super latent growing up.
I didn’t think I had any.
I assumed that women just got raised to be graceful and sensual, and I wasn’t one of them.
With no one to learn from, I felt doomed to always be awkward on the dance floor.
So imagine my surprise when I did my first Tantric belly-dancing class in my 20’s only to discover that even the tiniest shimmies brought me into a state of ecstasy.
I found that I could erotically turn myself on with nothing more than a few mini-hip wiggles.
That meant my own erotic force didn’t depend on a man, or someone sexually stroking me. It came from within!
So is this just my super power?
No. Every woman can do it.
You know how I know?
Because I’ve watched hundreds of women let loose in workshops.
Usually the most stubborn one, who assure me that everyone else can do it, but “she’s just not like that…’ is the one who winds up having an orgasm from the tiniest movement.
Posted on July 30, 2014
You know I’m all about the beauty of woman.
But I have to say, there is something we are collectively horrible at.
In the thousands of women I’ve worked with, I’ve noticed that most women don’t really celebrate their superpowers.
Generally, I find a woman bitching about the greatest gift she was given.
Posted on July 22, 2014
Someone asks me almost every day…. “so, Layla…what exactly is Tantra?”
I find it hilarious that it’s usually asked in a hushed tone, one eyebrow cocked, with the same hesitance and curiosity with which one might ask, “So…Layla…what exactly is crack?”
And the truth is, that answer to the question, “What is Tantra” is so vast, and so epic, that I can’t answer it here.
Instead, I’m going to give you some digestible ‘Tantric gems’ to get you started on your own understanding…