Posted on August 13, 2014
All my sensuality was super latent growing up.
I didn’t think I had any.
I assumed that women just got raised to be graceful and sensual, and I wasn’t one of them.
With no one to learn from, I felt doomed to always be awkward on the dance floor.
So imagine my surprise when I did my first Tantric belly-dancing class in my 20’s only to discover that even the tiniest shimmies brought me into a state of ecstasy.
I found that I could erotically turn myself on with nothing more than a few mini-hip wiggles.
That meant my own erotic force didn’t depend on a man, or someone sexually stroking me. It came from within!
So is this just my super power?
No. Every woman can do it.
You know how I know?
Because I’ve watched hundreds of women let loose in workshops.
Usually the most stubborn one, who assure me that everyone else can do it, but “she’s just not like that…’ is the one who winds up having an orgasm from the tiniest movement.
Posted on July 30, 2014
You know I’m all about the beauty of woman.
But I have to say, there is something we are collectively horrible at.
In the thousands of women I’ve worked with, I’ve noticed that most women don’t really celebrate their superpowers.
Generally, I find a woman bitching about the greatest gift she was given.
Posted on July 22, 2014
Someone asks me almost every day…. “so, Layla…what exactly is Tantra?”
I find it hilarious that it’s usually asked in a hushed tone, one eyebrow cocked, with the same hesitance and curiosity with which one might ask, “So…Layla…what exactly is crack?”
And the truth is, that answer to the question, “What is Tantra” is so vast, and so epic, that I can’t answer it here.
Instead, I’m going to give you some digestible ‘Tantric gems’ to get you started on your own understanding…
Posted on July 8, 2014
What word would you be horrified to be called in public?
Slutty? Cheap? Ugly? Fat?
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if no matter what someone called you, you were stable in your worth and confidence?
In the video below I’ll show you how to release fear & shame around trigger words.
Because carrying that fear of how other judge you will make you small, and afraid to shine your bright, beautiful self.
And no matter what you do or say or create: haters gonna hate.
Posted on July 2, 2014
Wow, I’m nervous to release this week’s video.
I feel like, “What’s the point of all the sexuality if we aren’t also getting intimate, vulnerable and real with each other?”
So, in this weeks Vlog I’m sharing three things I’m embarrassed or ashamed for you to know about me…to show the power of vulnerability.