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Why I cried more than usual this week.

Energetically, this was a challenging week…

starting with the 100+ character attacks coming from zealots on my youtube channel;


Dealing with these posts, I had four strong take aways:

1. I’m super grateful that I’ve embraced my evil, my pathetic-ness and the whore in me with compassion and love.

YAHOOO! I feel blessed to experience acceptance of my full humanity where others have fear.

2. Deep sadness that the teachings of Christ, which I experience to be fundamentally about radical love for oneself, all of humanity, all of creation and the divine can get so twisted.

3. Profound GRATITUDE to live in 2015 in a society where these people do NOT run the show.

500 years ago in Europe – this attitude of persecution of women and magic had real power.

Now: you can be as womanly and powerful and magical as you damn well please!

Ladies, let’s get out there and CELEBRATE this new era of freedom – dance in the street, make love with passion, wear what makes you feel beautiful, experience the ecstasy of life and let’s keep building this movement so that every woman around the world has the blessing of knowing her own freedom and beauty and sexual power.

4. All of their anger helped my video go viral – hahaha!!


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Are You Having Extraordinary Sex?

A reporter asked me the other day “Do you ever feel pressure to always have great sex since you’re a sex-teacher?”

Yeah, I said.

It doesn’t happen super often, but I have bad sex.

But I’ve made it a practice to celebrate each sexual opportunity so most of the time Andrew and I make love it is an epic experience.

It takes a lot to move from “meh” to “extraordinary.”

I’ve spent a lot of time asking myself, “If we have the capacity to have ultra-gorgeous, super sensual, over the top erotic bliss – why does anyone ever settle for “blah?”

I’m gonna share that with you in today’s video.

So if you want to know what can take your lovemaking (and your life!) from blah to absolutely extraordinary, then watch todays vlog below.

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My hair is falling out in clumps…so why am I celebrating?

My hair starting falling out in little clumps last week!

At first I freaked out, and then I had a huge revelation.

I’m sharing it with you in this week’s Vlog…

…along with 5 great tools for fully loving your body before it’s too late.

Check it out below.

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The Exquisite G-spot Pleasure Guide

So, I totally just found my new favorite word.


It’s Greek and it means:

1. To put soul, love and creativity into something.
2. To put ‘some of yourself’ into what you are doing.

…so beautiful, but there’s no translation for it in English.

It’s used to describe when you have left a piece of yourself in your art.

This captures for me the heart of a fulfilling sexuality.

It’s full of your unique soulful, loving, creative spirit.

So, how do you tap into that?

How do you fill your sexuality with soul, love and creativity?

By tapping the potential of your G-spot.

It’s not just a spot, it’s a whole world of pleasure and sensation that unlocks a certain “youness” in your sexuality.

And I’ve created an exquisite guide to fully accessing it in this week’s Vlog.

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Be youthful and sexy at any age – An interview with Dr. Northrup

“You can be younger at 60 then you were at 30 because you’ve changed your attitude and your lifestyle.” – Dr. Northrup, Goddesses Never Age

I have two minds about aging,

On one hand, I see myself dancing with wild abandon in some crazy desert festival in my 90s, being sexy, desirable and fashionable until the day I die.

On the other hand – I’ll catch a brief glimpse of that deepening crow’s eye wrinkle in the mirror and feel a flash of anxiety… is it all over so soon?!?

I know you may also be struggling with aging – can you really still be sexy at any age? Can you really still love your body and feel stunningly radiant?

When I feel a little lost – I look to role models to remind me of what’s possible and when it comes to being an ageless Goddess, it’s Dr. Christiane Northrup who inspires me deeply.

This woman is a sexy, salsa dancing passionista – fierce, firey, successful and brilliant in her beauty – now in her 60s.

So, I caught up with her today to get some of her best advice for us on feeling sexy in the bedroom at any age and shaking off that fear that it “just might be too late…”

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