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5 steps to clear ex-lovers out of your system

You know how an ex-lover can just get stuck in your system?

When I broke up with my boyfriend before Andrew…

I just could. Not. Get. Him. Out.

Out of my heart, out of my mind, out of my system.

All I wanted was to be DONE and free so that I could move on with my life…

But no.

It was like my insides had been painted with this permanent paint of his memory, his sexuality, his essence….

And he’d been a pretty terrible boyfriend so I was like “Come on brain, what the hell is wrong with you?!?”

But of course, there was nothing wrong with me or my brain. The truth was?

No one had ever taught me how to fully release an ex.

Yes, you can cut the cords and delete the pictures on your phone…

You can burn the love letters and throw his boxers in the trash…

But at the end of the day, what you really need to do to completely liberate yourself from an ex goes SO MUCH DEEPER than that.

I learned this the hard way…. And at the same time, I discovered an amazing way that really works for releasing an ex and clearing them out of your system (for good!).

I packaged it all into a simple 5-step practice for you that you can check out in the video below:

Plus, I recorded a guided audio for this practice that you can download to do as often as you want because, yes…

Sometimes this can be a process!

If you want to do a deep cleanse, go through the practice for any exes who are clearly still in your system as well as recent breakups. You can also do it for any deep relationships you had in the past for even more resolution.

The more resolution you have with exes, the more free you are to be fully present with your new partner…. Or to attract new love!

Sound good?

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3 yoga poses for more exquisite sex

Sometimes people think of yoga as being the opposite of sex.

(But am I the only one who’s ever had an orgasm in yoga class? NO?!?)

In fact, Hatha Yoga was developed in the Tantric traditions of India and in some paths, using sex and sexual energy consciously was a route to spiritual awakening.

Many people have forgotten this and so yoga has often moved away from its primal, raw, and very sexy roots.

In today’s video, I share with you the core way that you can use yoga to enhance your sexuality (and sex life) along with 3 yoga asanas that work directly on your sexuality.

And if you really want to nerd out on Tantra (like me 😍) then…

Sometimes when I talk about this people say, “Tantra isn’t only about sex.”

It’s true. In my experience, Tantra is one of the most advanced mystical systems for spiritual enlightenment ever developed (thank you, India!!) and it holds an infinite well of deep and profound wisdom.

However, it is one of the only traditions that worshipped ALL of reality as an expression of the Goddess.

Including sex, genitals, orgasm, and pleasure.

Some paths of Tantra also taught that going straight to the spaces of conditioned shame and taboo was one of the fastest paths to awakening.

So, while I want us all to hold the much bigger picture of what Tantra is, I’d also like to point out what can easily be missed sometimes:

That the path was about going where you’ve most been taught not to go… Only to find the divine there.

So I say: Let’s start with pussy and cock and intersexed genitalia.

Once you’ve found the Goddess there, it’s a lot easier to find Her everywhere.

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How to have a magical Tantric kiss

Have we lost the art of an outrageously good makeout session?

Is it always just about the goal of intercourse?

Or a brief kiss before work?

Or a means to an end?


(Insert teenage angst, a playlist + the thrill of that. first. kiss. HERE)

Well, I’ve got for you the most amazing process ever…Tantric Kissing.

Once you experience the magic of Tantric Kissing, your old makeout sessions will feel like scuba diving in a pool…so you don’t want to miss this!

Tantric Kissing brings your makeout sessions to totally new, electric, and elevated levels…

Allowing you to experience flowing orgasmic energy and a communion with the sacred and outrageous passion between you and your beloved kissing partner.

Buckle up, relax, and take flight with this crazy-good + crazy-powerful way to kiss!

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3 men share why they love sacred sex

I didn’t take it personally when so many of you wrote in the last time I released a video that didn’t feature me at all (BUT featured three conscious men instead) saying…

It was “your absolute favorite ever” and “the best video ever posted to YouTube!” 😂

Instead, I brought back another three men to share with you how sacred sex changed their lives in today’s video below.


Because a lot of guys are super resistant to learning about sacred sex.

I talk to them all the time and they share, “If it’s not broken, why fix it?”

And also because so many men are programmed to believe that they have to perform in bed, they have to give their lover like 100 orgasms and last just the right amount of time and have a rock-hard erection forever…

And with all that pressure already happening…

Who wants to add the additional pressure of having to make it sacred too???

Also, when I say “sacred sex,” I think a lot of guys imagine the cheesiest, lamest Hollywood romantic sex scene with a lot of long, slow looks, rose petals, and tears…

But, now, also featuring HARD WORK, more talking, and lasting EVEN LONGER.

So, suffice to say a lot of guys are like, “Sacred sex? No thanks.”

But what we wanted to tell you today is that whatever you call it – Sacred Sex, Conscious Sex, Woke Sex, Tantra…

It’s actually the most incredible thing a human can experience.

It’s not cheesy, it’s not hard work, it’s not more pressure….

It’s like taking 10 MDMA pills and feeling more ecstasy, connection, pleasure, and power than you could ever imagine…

With no hangover.

Sacred sex is whatever you make of it, but think of it like the sex you’re having now except 100 times better in technicolor.

Watch how sacred sex changed the lives of these 3 men below.

Here’s to more soul-shakingly connected, Tantric, and sacred sex for all!

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Learn eye-gazing for more mind-blowing sex

When I was 21 years old in college, I still had never had an orgasm.

I grew up Catholic, had experienced childhood sexual abuse, and hated my body…so the odds were pretty stacked against me when it came to experiencing a mind-blowing orgasm….

My friends would describe their experiences of blissful pleasure and I’d be half-jealous and half-bitter (the best combination if you want to feel terrible about yourself and others!!)….

Then I started dating this guy who had already graduated and had his own tutoring company and smoked a lot of pot and drove me around on his motorcycle in the Palo Alto hills.

He wasn’t like, an incredible lover or anything, but he looked me in the eyes.

Like, deeply in the eyes while touching me and making love.

At first I was shy, then a bit freaked out, then a little nauseous…until I thought, “Why the hell am I so scared to look at him when he is actually literally inside of me?”

So one afternoon, I got up the courage to look straight back at him as he touched me.

And as I connected with him, I felt his love. I felt his soul. I felt his humanity connecting with mine…

And all of a sudden an orgasm rushed through me!!!

We weren’t in our own worlds doing our own things…we were two soft human beings on the most intimate journey two people can take…together.

That’s the power of eye-gazing.

I always say my deepest desire is to be at one with my love at the height of our pleasure…and the key way we do that is through our eyes.

If you don’t ever do eye-gazing, you can live in your own separate worlds no matter how connected you make your bodies….

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