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Why ‘makeup-sex’ feels so good…and how you can have it without a fight first.

I had a massive fight with my boyfriend Andrew recently,

You know … one of those wild ones where you totally lose it screaming and shouting at each other, then both shut down and refuse to talk to each other.

As per usual we made up an hour later by rationally talking through our feelings and needs.

Then when we made love that night it was completely amazing!

Familiar story?

This got me thinking ‘what actually makes makeup-sex so damn amazing?’

Then it came to me…

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How to escape the prison of sexual shame

We’re hitting a fierce target this week: sexual shame.


Because shame is a silent killer of female desire.

I believe it underlies much of the anxiety, misery and numbness in the female body.

You’ve probably experienced shame around your behavior, your sexual choices, your clothing, your make-up, your desire and your passion.

Shame is like an invisible prison that none of us deserve to be in.

That’s why in today’s Vlog, I’m sharing with you the anti-dote to shame, the invisible bar breaker: and it’s not what you think.

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How to use nature as the ultimate Orgasmic Aphrodesiac

Years ago when a friend told me that I could experience multi orgasmic states by connecting more to nature I was intrigued and more than a little excited.

Nature is my favorite place to be!

So I started exploring, and the first book I came across was called, “The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity,” by Daniel Reid.

It talked about cultivating a “multiorgasmic state” through Taoism, an ancient Chinese philosophy based on harmony with nature.

This required a lot of self-pleasuring, what I called “masturbation” back then (terrible word.)

I was living in Thailand at the time, so I locked myself in my bungalow for hours. Hours became days.

Colors got super bright, my whole body was buzzing….

I’ve loved Taoism ever since.

I wanted to let you into to some of the secrets of Taoism, and how you can use nature to help you feel more orgasmic pleasure and energy in your life…

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Do you fit into the definition of feminine?

Can you be feminine and have bad-ass tattoos?

Is it feminine to win a nobel prize in physics?

What about riding your man in wild passion?

Or, is it really just about sweetness and floral prints?

The truth is, most of us have outdated associations with femininity…

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Is one of these 3 Orgasmic Myths
killing your pleasure?

I often like to imagine what I would have been told about sex if I was raised in a perfect society…

“Your sexuality is beautiful, your body is sensual and sacred, you deserve pleasure of the highest variety, and everything you could ever think, feel, do or say is perfect and worthy of love.”


I’d totally just be rolling around in nature, high on the ecstasy of being alive…

Anyways, that’s not what I got told, and probably not you, either.

As a result, most of us still have ideas about our sexuality that are not only lies, they are seriously un-helpful when it comes to our sexual happiness.

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