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Do we have more or less sex than other couples?

There is a small part of me that feels shame sharing with you that Andrew and I don’t have the perfect sex-life.

Do we have sex every day?

Hell NO!

Do we even make love every single week?

Not always!

Andrew and I are fully devoted to our relationship and our love-life being vibrant and healthy and loving…

And still, we go through periods where we don’t have that much sex.

There are times when I look at him and think, “I love you. You are gorgeous. And I so don’t want to have sex right now.”

Happily married people will tell you, “Great relationships take a LOT of work.”

What no one ever says is, “Great sex in a great relationship takes a LOT of work.”

It does.

And if you’ve been together with someone for more than a year, you know what I’m talking about.

But most couples don’t really do anything about it…

Because no one ever taught us what to do!!!

(If you love them, then it just happens, amiright??!?)


Just like healthy eating, physical fitness and your career all take work…

So does great sex.

But it is possible…

Andrew and I both feel that we love each other way more now than we did when we first got together….

And our love life also feels richer, more vibrant and even at times, more exciting more than four years in.

We’re sharing with you in todays video below exactly what we do to keep it alive between the sheets – even after years and years together.

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Pussy Massage 101 – for exquisite pleasure and healing

I will always remember my first pussy massage.

I’d been experiencing pain during sex for almost three years straight.

I’d been to gynecologists and sex therapists…

And no one could help me.

So when a friend who had been studying at a Tantra school offered to give me a pussy massage…I was pretty much up to try anything.

He spent three hours being present with me…and holding spots internally and allowing me to just feel.

No pressure to get turned on. No pressure to have an orgasm.

I screamed. I cried. I felt exquisite pleasure.

And the pain…it disappeared completely and never returned.

Ever since then – I’ve been a fan.

Pussy massage can bring you incredible pleasure. It can can bring you the deepest sexual healing.

If you want to learn a basic pussy massage you can try tonight, I’m sharing the 12 steps here.

Whenever Andrew offers me one – I still get a bit nervous and it ends up being the best part of my whole week.

It reconnects us in a profound way.

I truly believe this practice can change the world.

This is also called “Yoni Massage” – but I feel that even though the word yoni is a beautiful Sanskrit word – it makes the practice feel foreign.

And actually, this isn’t an ancient practice. It’s quite a modern development and mixes therapeutic release and sexual healing process that were developed in the 20th century!

Discover the exquisite pussy massage technique below

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3 Men Try Penis Massage – For the First Time

I remember the first time I gave Andrew a penis massage…

It was one of our first dates together.

He was grinning like a little kid when I said…

…I’m going to dedicate 40 minutes completely to your pleasure.

It ended up being one of the most memorable experiences he’s ever had…

with little bolts of electricity shooting through his chest for the first time ever.

Men have as much capacity as women to have magical sexual experiences…

they just need the time and attention.

So this week we sent 3 couples home with detailed instructions…

And then asked them to report back on their experiences.

The results were both hilarious and extremely touching!

I knew this video was going to be amazing…

But what surprised me most was how vulnerable the couples got at home on their iphones.

They invite us in for a rare peek into their sex lives.

The intimate moments these couples share are so beautiful.

Please don’t miss this one…

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So She Never Has to Fake Orgasm Again

Ever faked the big ‘O’?

If that was an ‘ahhh yep’…then you’re not alone.

Around 48% of women (and 11% of men) have reported faking an ‘O’.

AND 26% of women report faking their ‘O’ every time they have sex.

Why?!  Because we’ve become so focused on ‘O’…

and not what really, truly matters in lovemaking…

…deep connection and pleasure.

Men are so busy trying to give their partners an ‘O’…

and women are so focused on having one…

that we miss the point altogether and often end up having ‘just average’ sex.

So if you never want to fake an ‘O’ ever again…

(or don’t want your partner to have to fake it)

then keep it ‘real’ by watch today’s video below.

I get SO many questions from women who don’t want to fake it anymore…

but don’t know how to tell their partners.

So I made this video for both men and women, with practical ways to …

1. Never have to fake it again

2. Both experience all the pleasure you desire

3. Be able to be totally honest with each other

Watch the video below
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The Sensual Body Mapping Experience

I’m usually the one that suggests trying different sensual techniques in our relationship.

But this week Andrew decided to surprise me with an exquisite ritual of his own…

His sensual body mapping experience.

(Well to be fair…he found it on the magical internet but then added his own twists to spice it up a little.)

He told me that sensual body mapping is when you explore every single little part of your partner’s body with different types of stimulation…

to discover secret hidden spots that drive your partner wild with pleasure.


So then I thought…

Why not let Andrew make this week’s video explaining this sexy experience in detail to all of us…

and then we can all try it out together.

So in today’s video, he lays it out step by sexy step…

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