How to turn up the pleasure volume during sex

Have you ever caught yourself during sex asking, is this all there is? Why don’t I feel more?

Maybe you can even remember a time when sex was awesome, and now it feels like a chore.

This happened in one of my relationships – I had a great guy who completely loved me and from the outside it seemed like I should have been having the best sex of my life.

But on the inside, I was dying, because for years during sex due to past traumas and my own insecurities I couldn’t feel a thing.

It took me a lot of time to learn how to get that sensitivity back and now I work with so many women who say that, for many different reasons, they don’t feel very much during sex.

So If you want to know lasting and simple ways to get that sensational sensitivity back in bed and go from feeling blah to bliss then watch this video now…

Now it would be awesome to hear from you.

Let me know in the comments below how any of these 4 techniques work for you to boost your feelings or if anything else has worked to help you?

I love reading your comments!

Thank you for being here…
With Love,


  • Thank you! Love your tips, especially the last one. :-) Hope you feel better soon!

    • Thanks, Marielle! I think I’m in the mood for a little of #4, now that you mention it ;)

  • Quester

    Layla, these are great tips. I’m going to try them! Like Marielle said, #4 sounds like a fun one to get started with :>)

  • Yari

    Wow, this is a very powerful message and exactly what I needed to hear. I’m doing a lot of work around value and self-love so this is perfect timing. Thanks for sharing this message Layla!

  • Yari

    Whoops, this comment was actually about the How to Be Spiritual, Sexy & Have it All video, I opened it in the same window. This video is awesome too, I’m been reading through your blog and watching videos. You’re doing great work and I’m sharing with my group. :)