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Posted on June 24, 2015
There’s a cultural war going on…
Do vibrators numb you out?
Or are they power-pleasure tools of liberation?
After responding to thousands of emails, I have to say:
I’ve heard a lot of sad stories from women who can only experience lots of sexual pleasure with their vibrator and not with their partners or their hands…
…and they’re super frustrated by it!
On the other hand – a vibrator is an amazing little tool of pleasure – Why not celebrate it?
I’ve done a lot of work on this, and I’ve developed 5 great ways where you can get the most out of your vibrator, while NOT falling into dependency.
Find out how to have it both ways in this weeks video below
Posted on June 17, 2015
I’ve been in a “Soulmate” couples training with Andrew for the past week in Corfu.
It’s been hellish and beautiful beyond description.
To give you an idea, one of our assignments was to make love while saying absolutely everything we were thinking or feeling.
It got heavy – both our feelings got hurt at certain points…
In times like this, I am really, really grateful for my ability to flirt.
We’ll be sulking after a fight and suddenly, I get the urge to dance on top of him and pull his hair while making crazy sounds.
Before we know it, we’re laughing hysterically and can’t remember what the fight was about.
Sometimes flirting is seen as something superficial, but I think it’s an essential skill if you’re single or in a long-term relationship.
Flirting isn’t about the other person, it’s about tapping into your own inner amazingness and playfully sharing that with others.
A good flirt is a great lover and an even better companion.
So this week I’m sharing 5 flirting tips for the sexually empowered woman.
Check them out below
Posted on June 10, 2015
The first company I ever founded was a raw chocolate aphrodisiac company.
I had this dream that everyone would stop getting drunk or taking toxic drugs…
and start making wild love on organic herbs instead.
(Nope, hasn’t happened…yet!)
Anyways, for about two years I tested a whole bunch of natural aphrodisiac herbs on myself and my (semi-willing) boyfriend as lab rats.
I was looking for natural ways to feel more ecstasy, energy and bliss…
Find out my “test-results” for the best organic ‘sexy high herbs’ and where to get them below.
Posted on May 27, 2015
You might think this question is a little bit ‘out there’,
but stick with me, it’s super important for your happiness as a woman…
Do you love your pussy?
Really, truly LOVE her.
Sadly the answer for most women is ‘no’
Often your pussy (or whatever you like to call her) is completely taken for granted…
or worse, thought of as smelly, ugly or just not good enough.
With the pressures today on how she should look, smell and feel,
it’s harder than ever to have a happy pussy.
And an unhappy pussy often equals an unhappy woman.
So in today’s Vlog I’m sharing with you a simple exercise to completely transform your relationship with your pussy…
so she feels truly loved, happy and vibrant.
And you might be surprised at the pleasure she gives you back in return.
Posted on May 21, 2015
I’ve been feeling really nervous about getting rejected in my relationship lately.
I’m falling even deeper in love with Andrew.
And I wondered, “Is he feeling the same? Could he really love me as much as I love him?”
I asked him last night in bed, as we cuddled with our faces close together…
“I find myself looking at you often and think, wow, I love her…and you know, sometimes when you’re with someone for a long time they become less attractive and just more familiar…but you get more beautiful to me each day & I love you more than ever.”
I’ve been in crush-mode all day with sexy butterflies dancing in my belly.
One of the great sadnesses of my life was that I thought I’d never really get loved.
I didn’t just want a relationship, I wanted the real soulful love.
But I knew I had to start with myself, because when it came to self-love, I was one sick puppy.
And that’s where Tantra came in.
For 12 years now I’ve pursued Tantric wisdom and teachings.
Most people get drawn in by the sexual part (totally valid reason!!)
Somehow I got really into the vision of a rich, dedicated, love-affair with god/self/goddess/consciousness for better or worse that started with myself.
Dedication to that transformed not only my inner reality (from hell to beauty) but also my outer relationships as well (from drama and heartbreak to love)
I believe that Tantric wisdom is so needed to unravel all that misery, and worthlessness and self-rejection we’ve inherited.
In 2015, I think we might finally be ready for it.
First we had a revolutionary Yoga wave.
Is Tantra next??
I believe so…
Find out what this tantric revolution is & what it might mean for you in this weeks Vlog below.