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Posted on October 22, 2014
So…what comes to mind when I say sex party?
Eyes-wide shut? 60’s swingers? Overly tanned people in weird tacky “sexy” clothing? Last friday night?
Before I went to my first sex party, I had a lot of pre-conceived notions. I was scared. I thought it might feel weird. I was definitely intrigued.
What I actually discovered about relationships, sex and openness surprised me and has changed the way I view relationships.
Watch todays Vlog below to find out what I discovered at NYC sex parties
Posted on October 15, 2014
I made todays video on tantric sex, because sex is like a vast universe.
But you and I weren’t told about all the stars, galaxies and worlds we can travel to in our hearts and with our partners, through our ecstasy.
We certainly didn’t get told about the badass spaceship each of us have to get there.
It’s, yeah, a spaceship in your pants. I totally just went there. ;)
Perhaps you’ve even experienced one of the common struggles with sex: it’s become a little dull…or difficult…or painful. Or you just crave a deeper experience.
How did our greatest source of pleasure and fun become such a place of struggle?
I believe a big part of that is because we’re making love only in a very limited way.
I call this “Regular Sex” and it has been the winner for quite some time.
But Tantric sex and tantra are making a real comeback.
Watch this week’s video below and learn the differences between the two, so you can hop in that special spaceship…and fly….;)
Posted on October 8, 2014
Sometimes I wonder if sharing my wilder adventures with you is a good idea.
Will you understand?
Will you still trust me?
Then something much deeper comes from within and says:
What the hell. Life is short.
Be what you are.
And do what it takes to unleash your magnificence on the world.
So I came to this Ayurvedic center in South India because while I was creating and working in New York, there was always this low-level vibration of pain.
If I felt into it, tears would flow and I could recognize it as sadness. But, as I moved about the world busying myself with business and life it showed up more as a heavy tiredness.
I put it on the back burner, promising myself that as soon as I could I’d get the support and attention to really deal with it.
Thus, right after my course launch, my boyfriend and I were off to India: he in the hopes of curing a long-term digestive issue, I in the hopes of finally vanquishing the sadness/tiredness once and for all.
Posted on October 1, 2014
In my life, I’ve experienced this crazy “tale of two men.”
It all started with my biological father being a real jerk.
My step-father, however, was a dream father, always cheering for me, loving me and supporting me.
As I grew up, I found myself continuously drawn to dating two types of men…
One was manipulative, cold, critical and usually abandoned me right when I opened my heart.
The other was unconditionally loving, supportive and basically supported me in all the ways you could ask for in a healthy relationship.
Guess which one I found myself ultra drawn too?
That’s right, the jerk!
It sounds totally unreasonable, but I found the loving ones a little un-interesting and I usually dumped them.
After going deeper into this issue, I discovered that I was running after the cold ones because I didn’t need to prove anything with the good men.
I’d gotten the message early on from my stepfather that grounded and stable men loved and accepted me.
But, my biological father left this unresolved need in me to “prove” that a cold, distant man could do the same.
The craziest part was that chasing those “bad boys” only made me feel loved for a few seconds.
Most of the time I spent drained, needy and in a state of drama.
It took about a decade, and a lot of messing up, but I finally started choosing the good men.
That was less exciting at first, but it left a hell of a lot more room in my heart to build my business, follow my spiritual path and take care of myself and my friends.
It also allowed me to create a deep and lasting love that wasn’t based on my wounds, but my true desires.
So: if you’re still stuck dating bad boys (or girls) over and over again (or know someone who is), I want to share with you what worked for me to undo this nasty habit.
(And the problem doesn’t have to be with your father or mother, it can come from a number of different places, and this video will still apply to you.)
Posted on September 24, 2014
When I pull my boyfriend into bed with me, I don’t want to worry whether I’ll be any good or not.
Lovemaking is an art, and insecurity can destroy the best creativity.
In todays video I’m sharing with you where you can focus your attention…
…so you don’t have to worry and wonder, you can just let yourself go.
As always, this will work regardless of your age or your perceived “hotness.”
Great sexuality has soul in it, and soul is independent of age or shape.